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Author: Sand-Hart, H.
Title: Home keeps moving: A glimpse into the extraordinary life of a Third Culture Kid.
   Hagerstown, MD: McDougal Publishing.   2010
Summary:  This is an autobiography of a TCK who grew up in three different cultures and has served in a fourth. The author is very open about the good, the bad, and the ugly about her life and is married and living happily in London at the time of writing.
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Author: Shelling, G.
Title: In Love but Worlds Apart: Insights, Questions, and Tips for the Intercultural Couple.
   Bloomington, IN: AuthorHouse.   2008
Summary:  A book written for intercultural marriage partners to gain an understanding of themselves, their respective cultures, and each other so that they have a chance to fulfill their dream of a successful relationship.
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Author: Savageau, C.
Title: Parents of Missionaries: How to thrive and stay connected when your children and grandchildren serve cross-culturally.
   Colorado Springs, CO: Authentic Publishing.   2008
Summary:  Written by a counselor and a parent of missionaries, this book gives readers the understanding, attitudes, and skills needed to say goodbye, remain connected, visit, and welcome their children and grandchildren home.
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Author: Eenigenburg, S.
Title: Screams in the desert: Hope and humor for women in cross-cultural ministry.
   Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   2007
Summary:  This book is 52 humorous chapters of personal experiences filled with hope for women serving cross-culturally. Each chapter ends with a Scripture passage to read, questions to answer, an action to take, and a prayer to pray.
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Author: Joy, D. M.
Title: Structural development strengths of adult missionary kids.
The Family in mission: Understanding and caring for those who serve (pp. 129-144).  Palmer Lake, CO: Mission Training International.   2004
Summary:  This chapter is an after-the fact look at the data collected from the MK-CART/CORE study of adult MKs from the perspective of structural development.
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Author: H. K.
Title: Long-distance grieving-the Unexpected Sacrifice.
Women of the Harvest,  March/April.   2004
Summary:  This article is one woman's journey through grief at the unexpected loss of a loved one back "home."
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Author: Duvall, N
Title: Educational context and development.
The Family in mission: Understanding and caring for those who serve (pp. 71-81).  Palmer Lake, CO: Mission Training International.   2004
Summary:  This chapter introduces the major studies done by MK-CART/CORE: The boarding school personnel study, the adult MK study, and the missionary family study.
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Author: Andrews, L. A.
Title: The Family in mission: Understanding and caring for those who serve
   Palmer Lake, CO: Mission Training International.   2004
Summary:  This book is the final product of 15 years of study of missionary kids and missionary families by the MK-CART/CORE group and supported by several mission agencies. This report includes material from 23 contributors.
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Author: Gould, J. B.
Title: Always saying goodbye: Separation as experienced by MKs in boarding schools.
The Family in mission: Understanding and caring for those who serve (pp. 155-177).  Palmer Lake, CO: Mission Training International.   2004
Summary:  This chapter is a consideration of separation and loss when MKs experience repeated long separations by going to boarding schools from the perspective of psychiatrist John Bowlby's classic work on separation and loss. It deals primarily with those who have a difficult time.
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Author: S. L.
Title: The uninvited.
Women of the Harvest,  September/October.   2003
Summary:  This is an article about being asked to leave a group (Bible study), the expected reactions and what one can do when this happens.
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Author: Collard, D. B.
Title: Helping finishers bridge the gap.
Frontline women: Negotiating crosscultural issues in ministry (pp. 177-184).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   2003
Summary:  A chapter offering an overview of the "Finishers" movement followed by some specific considerations for women who are planning to go to the mission field in their second-half of life.
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Author: Collard, D. B.
Title: Dealing with loss.
Frontline women: Negotiating crosscultural issues in ministry (pp. 75-80).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   2003
Summary:  A short, very personal, chapter about grief and loss, giving the basics of recovery from the loss.
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Author: Lingenfelter, J. E.
Title: In the line of fire.
Frontline women: Negotiating crosscultural issues in ministry (pp. 209-219).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   2003
Summary:  A chapter on women's concerns when facing danger or stress, along with things agencies and churches can do both before women go to the field and while they are serving there.
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Author: Tunberg, H.
Title: TCKs & commitment,
Interact,  Summer, Vol. 11, No. 4, pp. 1-6.   2003
Summary:  An article dealing with the whats, the whys, and the hows of the TCKs' struggles with commitment.
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Author: Neigh, M.
Title: Bitterness: The hidden time-bomb.
Fitted Pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 305-316),  St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Service.   2001
Summary:  An excellent article considering the causes, results, and solutions of bitterness, as well as including preventive measures and a discussion of the need for an adequate theology of forgiveness. Includes much very personal sharing. Same as in Interact December, 1997, Vol. 7, No. 2, pp. 1-7.
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Author: Gjoen, J.
Title: What are the risks of a boarding school experience?
Fitted Pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 626-632),  St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Service.   2001
Summary:  An article considering the impact of boarding school on several different aspects of the child's life to alert families to the potential psychological risks the MKs face. Same as in Interact May, 1998, Vol. 7, No. 4, pp. 2-5.
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Author: Neigh, M.
Title: New Issues facing Today's TCKs.
Fitted Pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 197-210),  St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Service.   2001
Summary:  An article on issues facing adolescents as they serve with their parents, including suggestions for resolving those issues. Same as in Interact October, 1999, Vol. 8, No. 1. pp. 1-4 and February, 2000, Vol. 8, No. 3. pp. 6-10.
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Author: Pascoe, R.
Title: Homeward Bound: A Spouse's Guide to Repatriation,
   Vancouver, BC, Canada: Expatriate Press.   2000
Summary:  A book about re-entry written for spouses (primarily women) of ones who have lived and worked overseas. It is written both from the head and from the heart.
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Author: Neigh, M.
Title: New Issues facing Today's TCKs. (Part Two)
Interact.  February, Vol. 8, No. 3. pp. 6-10.   2000
Summary:  An article on issues facing adolescents as they serve with their parents, including suggestions for resolving those issues. Same as Blomberg & Brooks, 2001, Fitted pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 197-210). St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Services.
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Author: Pauls, N.
Title: Preparing children for boarding school.
Raising resilient MKs: Resources for caregivers, parents, and teachers (pp. 348-351).  Colorado Springs, CO: Association of Christian Schools International.   1998
Summary:  A chapter giving 22 practical suggestions for parents of children preparing to attend boarding school. Same is Parents Teaching overseas, May, 1995.
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Author: Wickstrom, D. L.
Title: Bruising: When things go wrong.
Raising resilient MKs: Resources for caregivers, parents, and teachers (pp. 164-176).  Colorado Springs, CO: Association of Christian Schools International.   1998
Summary:  A chapter dealing with how, why, symptoms and dealing with bruising. Emphasis is on a developmental approach. Based on a presentation given at ICMK Nairobi, 1989.
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Author: Wright, S. D.
Title: Preparing children for missionary life.
Raising resilient MKs: Resources for caregivers, parents, and teachers (pp. 85-93).  Colorado Springs, CO: Association of Christian Schools International.   1998
Summary:  A chapter to prepare children, including the areas of personal identity, transition, and expectations, along with a practical program.
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Author: Larson, J. M.
Title: Transitions and the TCK.
Raising resilient MKs: Resources for caregivers, parents, and teachers (pp. 72-84).  Colorado Springs, CO: Association of Christian Schools International.   1998
Summary:  A chapter giving an overview of the five phases of making transitions of any kind: Engagement, leaving, transition, entering, and re-engagement.
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Author: Gjoen, J.
Title: What are the risks of a boarding school experience?
Interact.  May, Vol. 7, No. 4, pp. 2-5.   1998
Summary:  An article considering the impact of boarding school on several different aspects of the child's life to alert families to the potential psychological risks the MKs face. Same as Blomberg & Brooks, 2001, Fitted pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 626-632). St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Services.
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Author: Priest, R.
Title: Ignorance is not bliss.
Evangelical Missions Quarterly,  34, 192-195.   1998
Summary:  An article exploring the fact that often when families back home face difficulties, they do not tell the missionaries overseas, who want to know.
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Author: Neigh, M.
Title: Bitterness: The hidden time bomb.
Interact.  December, Vol. 7, No. 2, pp. 1-7.   1997
Summary:  An excellent article considering the causes, results, and solutions of bitterness, as well as including preventive measures and a discussion of the need for an adequate theology of forgiveness. Includes much very personal sharing. Same as Blomberg & Brooks, 2001, Fitted pieces: A guide for parents educating children overseas (pp. 305-316). St. Clair Shores, MI: SHARE Education Services.
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Author: Keidel, L.
Title: Conflict or connection: Interpersonal relationships in cross-cultural settings.
   Wheaton, IL: Evangelical Missions Information Service.   1996
Summary:  A very good book on relationships with many different types of people. The first four chapters and the last six chapters are particularly about mental health issues.
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Author: Miller, S.
Title: After the boxes are unpacked: Moving on after moving in.
   Wheaton, IL: Tyndale.   1995
Summary:  A book about transition written for women in the United States. However, it is certainly applicable to missionary women, and men as well.
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Author: Schubert, E.
Title: Even MKs can be come depressed.
Interact.  October, Vol. 5, No. 1, pp. 8-13.   1995
Summary:  An article about adolescent and childhood depression and what can be done about it.
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Author: Schubert, E.
Title: What missionaries need to know about burnout and depression.
   New Castle, IN: Olive Branch Publications.   1993
Summary:  A practical presentation of burnout and depression, with the emphasis on depressions of various types and at different ages along with suggestion for prevention.
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Author: Kellogg, M. E.
Title: Sexual immorality in the missions community: Overtones of incest?
Journal of Psychology and Theology,  21, 45-53.   1993
Summary:  An article showing how sexual immorality by male missionaries toward children and single female missionaries carries with it components of incest experienced in natural families because of the quasi-family nature of the mission community.
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Author: Brooks, D. F.
Title: Satellite Schools: A new option in MK education, A principal's perspective, A Teacher's perspective.
Interact.  February, Vol. 2, No. 3, pp. 11-14.   1993
Summary:  An article describing satellite schools of Morrison Academy in Taiwan, including interviews with an administrator and a teacher.
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Author: Gordon, A. D.
Title: Don't pig out on junk food: The MK's guide to survival in the U. S.
   Wheaton, IL: Evangelical Missions Information Service.   1993
Summary:  a book written for children, teenagers, and parents about cross-cultural entry for furloughs or for longer periods. It is simply written, practical, and has quotes from an informal survey of about 100 Brazilian MKs. Each of the six chapters ends with "Questions for reflection" and "Work Sheets" for application to one's life. The book ends with eight appendices and a list of various kinds of resources.
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Author: Loewen, B.
Title: Where's home? Closing the MK's identity gap.
Evangelical Missions Quarterly,  29, 52-55.   1993
Summary:  A description of identity problems that MKs face and six suggestions for preventing them.
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Author: Bullock, M. D.
Title: Separation anxiety disorder in a missionary child: Theoretical considerations and intervention strategies.
Journal of Psychology and Theology,  21, 37-44.   1993
Summary:  An introduction to separation anxiety disorder with a description of the disorder along with psychodynamic and behavioral explanations. In includes a case study.
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Author: Beck, J. R.
Title: Dorothy Carey: The tragic and untold story of Mrs. William Carey.
   Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Book House.   1992
Summary:  This book details the life of the wife of the founder of modern missions. Dorothy's illiteracy and insanity have been emphasized unjustly in many accounts. This well-documented book presents many of the great difficulties she faced when member care of missionaries did not exist.
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Author: Smith, A.
Title: Abram, the first missionary.
Understanding and nurturing the missionary family: Compendium of the international Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I (pp. 20-24).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  A chapter showing how Abram can be seen as living the life of the first missionary, and Lot was the first MK to go bad.
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Author: Echerd, P.
Title: Understanding and nurturing the missionary family. Compendium of the International Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I.
   Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  Compendium of the International Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I. Contains 42 chapters grouped into seven categories.
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Author: Van Reken, R.
Title: MK: A person in process.
Understanding and nurturing the missionary family: Compendium of the international Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I (pp. 25-34).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  An autobiographical chapter about how being an MK lasts into adulthood, with illustrations from other people's lives as well
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Author: Bowers, J. M.
Title: Young adults/young children: Coping with competing needs and demands.
Understanding and nurturing the missionary family: Compendium of the international Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I (pp. 65-74).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  A chapter dealing with development in the framework of Erik Erikson and also looking at alternative care, separation and loss.
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Author: White, F.
Title: MK identity crisis: Fact or fiction.
Understanding and nurturing the missionary family: Compendium of the international Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I (pp. 253-269).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  A chapter on identity in MKs emphasizing the first three years of life, the family, and developmental issues.
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Author: Schubert, E.
Title: Depression and suicide.
Understanding and nurturing the missionary family: Compendium of the international Conference on Missionary Kids, Quito, Ecuador, January 4-8, 1987, Volume I (pp. 127-148).  Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.   1989
Summary:  A chapter about depression and suicide in adults, adolescents and children. Since it was written in the 1980s, it is somewhat dated.
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Author: Van Reken, R.
Title: Letters never sent.
   Indianapolis, IN: Letters   1988
Summary:  An autobiography of the author's journey from hurt to wholeness written in the form of letters she wrote as an adult, but were never actually sent.
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Author: Foyle, M.
Title: Overcoming missionary stress.
   Wheaton, IL: Evangelical Missions Information Service.   1987
Summary:  An excellent source of information about missionary stress. In consists of ten chapters covering stress and singleness, marriage, children, adolescents, selection, culture, relationships, and reentry. Major portions of many chapters are also available in articles by Foyle in the Evangelical Missions Quarterly (1985) 21, 32-40; 21, 134-142; 21, 240-245; 21, 342-349 (1986) 22, 14-20; 22, 196-204; 22, 262-270 (1987) 23, 20-28; 23, 144-150. Some of these are also available in O'Donnell & O'Donnell (1988) Helping missionaries grow (pp. 413-420, pp. 399-406, pp. 26-34, and pp. 194-202) , Pasadena, CA: William Carey Press.
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Author: Gardner, L. M.
Title: A practical approach to transitions in missionary living.
Journal of Psychology and Theology,  15, 342-349.   1987
Summary:  An analysis of what transitions a typical missionary faces in life and what can be done to help. This includes the major issues and what can be done by the organization to help in the transitions
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Author: Hunter, V. L.
Title: Closure and commencement: The stress of finding home.
Cross-cultural reentry: A book of readings (pp. 179-189).  Abilene, TX: Abilene Christian University Press.   1986
Summary:  A chapter consisting of a series of journal entries made before leaving, during travel, and after arriving back in the United States after living in England for more than a decade.
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Author: White, F.
Title: Some reflections on the separation phenomenon idiosyncratic to the experience of missionaries and their children.
Journal of Psychology and Theology,  11, 181-188.   1983
Summary:  Application of Bowlby's approach emphasizing attachment, separation, and loss to the frequent separations experienced by missionaries and their children. Treats it as a normal phenomenon experienced by everyone undergoing separations
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Author: Fritz, J.
Title: Homesick--My Own Story.
   New York: Yearling Press.   1982
Summary:  This book is the story of the author's life growing up in a tumultuous China when foreigners were becoming more and more unpopular. Written for children 8-12 years of age, the book is a Newberry Honor Book and winner of the American Book Award for Children's Fiction.
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